People's reactions when someone reveals they're suffering from depression

I told them I have a depression..

'You have to put some effort to win over it.. Everyone's having it tough as well'

'Is there anyone who's not suffering from depression these days?'

'Have some strength! It's because you have a weak mental! Put more effort!'

You're telling me to take medicines, go for a walk, run, or work out?

You're telling me not to be alone, and write diaries? Sighs..

It's the same thing with you telling me to die.

How will those things help me?

I'm trying so hard, but it just doesn't work out.. That's why it's called 'depression'!

And on top of that..

I even think about things like this..

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-Then what do you expect us to react? Say 'Oh, I got it~' when you tell us you're suffering from depression?

-When someone is revealed to be suffering from depression, people usually react like 'Ah.. Really..?' and they suddenly don't want to get closer with that person anymore..

-The real answer is to go to the hospital to get some treatments for it..

-Then what kind of reaction is the most appropriate..?ㅠㅠ

-What are we supposed to do then? Ignore you..?

-I've went through this.. It would've been better if they just react like 'Ah.. I see..', pat on my shoulders, or hold my hands.. It would've made me feel better that way.. After confessing to my friend that I'm depressed and seeing her reaction, I suddenly felt like there's no use to tell her further things about it because she wouldn't care.. And, I just ended up making a huge wall between us..

-The truth is.. When you say to someone else that a certain person is suffering from depression, they would say 'Ah really..? But she's laughing and smiling just fine, though?'

-It hurts.. Especially hearing those things from people that you trust the most..

-Aren't you supposed to take medicines? And isn't working out supposed to be really good for people who have depression?

-People with depression will have a hard time to accept your words no matter how careful you are before you say it..  Because depression is not something that can be cured with comforting words..

-Is it our fault that we're not suffering from depression? Why is this so hard.. I don't know what are we supposed to react..

-For me, I've heard 'You don't look like you're suffering from depression at all..' the mostㅎㅎ

-That's why I've never told anyone about my depression..ㅎㅎ Seeing from the comments, seems like people like me are such a burden to the society.. I think I should just shut my mouth from now on..

-I've heard that from my siblings.. That hurts so much, it's the biggest scar I have in my heart.. I mean, it took me a lot of courage to confess it.. So that's why I don't even talk about it now..

-I don't mean to be mean or anything but, how are we supposed to react then?

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The emoticon that confuses people with its mouth/nose

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I seriously thought the dot was the nose, but turns out a lot of people think it's the mouthㅋㅋ

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-That's obviously the mouth..

-Is that the mouth??

-Hul.. I thought that was the nose, I've always thought that way all this time..

-Isn't that the nose??

-For me, it's the nose..ㅋㅋㅋ How could they use a dot to represent mouth? Different case with ^0^ or ^-^, then the '0' and the '-' in those emoticons are the mouths..

-How could you see that as the nose?

-Of course it's the mouth..

-How is that even a nose, you guysㅋㅋㅋ

-I've never thought that dot as the mouth..

-Of course, it's the mouth.. In this emoticon ^-^, the '-' is the nose but in this ^.^, the dot is the mouth..

-Mouth;; If it was the nose then it would have two holes like this ^..^

-I thought that was the mouth???!

-I bet most people think that's the mouth..

-Isn't that the mouth? Don't you think it's a little bit too far below for a nose..?

-How is that even a nose? I can't understand..

-I thought that was the nose, because it's way too small for a mouth..

-Mouth, with no doubt.. It's my first time hearing people thinking it's the nose..

-It's the nose if the emoticon was something like this -> ^,.^ or ^..^

-The problem here is not the position of the dot.. Just, why would that be a nose????ㅋㅋㅋ If it was a nose then how would you know what kind of expression is the emoticon displaying there?ㅋㅋㅋ Expressions are expressed by eyes and mouths, not nose..ㅋㅋㅋ

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Jonghyun's Instagram update this summer

'You know that, right? That friends stay together for the rest of their lives'

'Can you see us being so happy right now?'

Jonghyun: 'I can. Can you see me being happy right now?'

'Would you stay on our sides forever?'

'I will come for you if you call for me'

'Now I know how to love you'

Jonghyun: 'Really? Do you know (how to love me)?'

'Let's not let go of each other'

'I will support you in the future just like how I'm supporting you now'

'Thank you for listening to my stories'

'It's such a relief that you are my destiny'

'Jonghyun-ah, trust us'

'Just like how we have always trusted you'

'Let's comfortably see each other for a long time, us'

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-You agreed to not let go of each other, to see each other for a long time. Then why did you leave us, why?

-It's cold here.. Can't you just stay here?

-I can't help but keep on crying since awhile ago..ㅠㅠ Kim Jonghyun was a really really good person..

-You told us to see each other for a long time but why did you leave so soon..ㅠㅠ

-Jonghyun, you told us to see each other for a long time..

-Why did you leave us first, Jonghyun-ah..

-I didn't let go of you.. I'm sorry for not knowing this..

-You said to see each other for a long time.. You said that you'll come for us if we call you.. But are you happy there, now? If you are, then that's all that matters to me..

-I love you, Jonghyun-ah..

-Why did you leave so fast, you fool.. You said to see each other for a long time..

-I should've listened to your story before thanking you for listening to my stories..

-I can't stop crying..

-Jonghyun-ah, it's really cold here.. Please don't go..

-You fool....ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ

-He had been having a really tough times..

-Why did you leave us when it's cold, out of all the other weather.. I thought you said to see each other for a long time..

-Jonghyun-ah, I know this sounds selfish but I want to see you..

-Fool..ㅠㅠㅠ You fool..ㅠㅠ I hope you're happy wherever you are now..

-Thank you so much for everything.. It's really cold today, good bye, Jonghyun..

-This makes me wonder if all the attention and love that his fans gave to him were a burden to him..

-Jonghyun-ah, please be happy forever..ㅠㅠ

-I still can't believe this..

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Taeyeon liked some of Jonghyun's Instagram posts

They were a really really close friends, I hope she can overcome this..

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-Taeyeon, you too, have some strength.. Everyone, let's hang in there..

-SM needs to pay more attention on their artists' mental health, especially at this time..ㅠㅠ I know they would take care of it but.. Taeyeon and Jonghyun were more than just a colleague..ㅠㅠ

-It's already more than 10 years.. She has known him for around 13 years or so..

-Whoa.. I still can't believe this.. I still feel like he's still alive and breathing now..

-Ah.. This once again made me realize that this is real, that he's gone.. But I don't want to accept the truth..

-Me too.. I can't help but keep on spacing out.. I hope everyone can overcome this well..

-She was featured in his last song, I wonder how it feels like.. I'm really worried about her, I hope she can overcome this well..

-Taeyeon.. She doesn't seem to have a strong mental, too.. I hope this wouldn't affect her greatly.. Have some strength..

-Taeyeon-ah..ㅠㅠ It must be really hard for her..ㅠㅠ

-I hope someone is with her right now..ㅠㅠ

-I hope she can have some strength and overcome this.. She was really close with Jonghyun..ㅠㅠ

-I'm really worried for her..ㅠㅠ We all know how close Jonghyun and Taeyeon were..ㅠㅠ I hope she can overcome this, and also I hope she's with someone now..ㅠㅠ

-Jonghyun's last song features Taeyeon's voice in it.. It must be really tough for Taeyeon, have some strength..

-This is really really sad..

-Seems like Taeyeon and Jonghyun were really close, just imagine how shocked Taeyeon was when she heard the news..ㅠㅠ Especially since she was featured in Jonghyun's last song..

-Have strength, Taeyeon.. And also Shawols, and everyone who were close with Jonghyun.. I don't even know if telling people to have some strength is something that's appropriate to say at this time..

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An idol reveals how he feels like after seeing hate comments targeted towards him

'Those thoughtless comments like 'I hate him' that was written in less than 5 seconds, I think about them for 5 hours, even 5 days. I know it doesn't make sense, but I care about every comments (netizens leave) towards me'

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-Ah.. My heart hurts so bad to know this..

-I know.. Things like that usually will stay inside your head for a long time..

-I wonder why people write mean comments..

-As a fan, my heart aches so bad whenever I see malicious comments targeted towards my biases. I can't imagine how hard it is for them..

-I looked up on searching engine and it seems like Rap Monster from BTS said this..

-No wonder why this sounds familiar, it's something that my bias once said before..

-I didn't know my bias has said something like this before..ㅠㅠ 

-My bias..ㅠㅠ All I want just for him to only look and hear the good things..ㅠㅠ

-I'm tearing up right now..

-Ugh.. My heart feels so stuffed right now..

-I hope those mean people who leave hate comments will get a karma sooner or later!

-Celebrities are humans too, just like usㅠㅠ

-That's my bias..ㅠㅠ It feels like someone just ripped off my heart from my chestㅠㅠ

-Namjoon-ah, I love you.. Let's not get hurt.. Let's be happy..

-That's my bias..ㅠㅠ Thank you so much for hanging in there, I'm literally crying right nowㅠㅠ

-I know right..ㅠㅠ Like.. You can just stop caring about them if you don't like them, there's no need to be so meanㅠㅠ

-I hope his days would be filled only with happiness..

-Joon-ah.. I love you.. So much..

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The thing that netizens are worrying about now..

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-Me too.. I'm worried a lot about themㅠㅠ

-I feel bad for the fans..ㅠㅠ I'm not even a fan of SHINee but my heart hurts really bad when I heard the news..ㅠㅠ

-Seriously, though.. Even me, who's not a fan, literally tearing up and feels like my heart is getting ripped off right now..ㅠㅠ

-Same.. This is what I've been thinking about..

-Please let's not think about bad things..

-I'm worried for both his fans and also his members..

-I'm also worried for the rest of SHINee's members..

-Shawols, have some strength..

-Same.. I'm not a fan but  I felt weird.. and sad when I heard about him..

-Let's take care of each other, even if we're not from the same fandom..

-Even me, who's not a fan, is feeling depressed right now..

-I know right.. Especially since his fans are mostly teenagers..

-I'm worried about them too.. If you know anyone who's a fan of SHINee, please take care of them, protect them..

-My friends..ㅠㅠ I'm worried about them..ㅠㅠ

-I hope this won't happen.. I mean, this shouldn't happen..

-Have some strength, Shawols.. That's the only thing I can say right now..

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Gangnam Police Station confirmed Jonghyun's death.. Still investigating more about the case

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-Please tell me this is just a dream.. I just listened to his song this afternoon..

-Thank you. I will never forget your voice. Please rest comfortably and happily there. May he rest in peace.

-No way.. I'm not believing this..

-I mean, this doesn't make any sense.. Why would he..?

-Thank you so much for all the good songs.. I hope you can rest comfortably in heaven now, may you rest in peace..

-Let this be a dream.. Please..

-Please tell me it's just a lie..

-I just can't believe this..

-I still can't believe this but.. His songs help a lot to comfort me during my hard times.. May he rest in peace..

-His sister reported to the police at 4.42 and yet he was found collapsed in his apartment at 6.. It's suspicious.. It took them an hour and half to arrive at his apartment, why did it take so long? Anyway, may he rest in peace.. I think I would always be reminded of him whenever I see snow.. His voice was beautiful..

-Jonghyun's songs often put me in peace and comfort me during hardships.. May he rest in peace..

-Please don't go.. Please..

-Can't someone just tell me that this is just a lie? It feels like a lie to me.. What do I do..

-This is not true..? Am I right..? I can't believe this, Jonghyun-ah..ㅠㅠ

-I don't want to believe this..

-My heart aches so bad.. I wish it was not true..

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