'I have 4 mothers, I am afraid of marriage' ... Tony Ahn's confession

 

On the episode of Channel A's Oh Eunyoung Golden Counseling Center that aired on the 29th, Tony Ahn says, 'Even when the thoughts of marriage come to me, I worry if I would ever become a good husband or father'. He continues, 'Marriage means spending the rest of your life with that one person. If I can't be a good man or father, wouldn't I harm a lot of people?'.

Oh Eunyoung proceeds to ask about the marriage life of his parents, to which Tony Ahn replies, 'My parents got divorced when I was 6. I have four mothers. 1 biological mother and 3 step mothers'.

He was asked if his father married three times, to which he answers 'It's true (he married 3 times). If I ever get married, would it be a good marriage? I've gone through such childhood, sometimes it makes me think if I would go through the same thing (as my father did)'. 

Tony Ahn also reveals that alcohol was the main reason behind the conflict between his father and step mothers. He says, 'I think alcohol has a big influence behind this. He talks in a really harsh way when he drinks, I avoid him too'. 

When asked about what kind of person his father is, Tony Ahn replies, 'I think this is a very difficult question. First of all, I see him as someone who did a great job raising me. Even if I couldn't feel it back then. I would think, 'Does my father love me?'. I had a hard time understanding him. I think we started sharing conversations ever since I started drinking with him. He somehow started seeing me as a friend that he feels comfortable being around with. Not too long after that, he passed away'.

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-Seems like he wasn't a good father afterall. He gave such a hard time to both his son and wives.

-I had no idea that he went through this all. I saw my mom crying while watching this episode but I didn't know the context of it.

-I have two moms as well, it's very hard for me...

-I can totally understand why he feels afraid of marriage. It seems like he's afraid he might turn out to be someone like his fatherㅠㅠ

-Hul... What did his son do wrong to deserve this?

-No matter how much you hate that person and swear to yourself that you won't let yourself be that kind of person... In the end, you can't help but be that person...

-Oh Eunyoung said in the show, 'You and your father are two different people. You and your father grew up in a different environment and have different pasts. It's impossible for the two of you to be alike'.

-I hope he gets to meet a good person and wish him all the happiness he deserves

-It hurts me just to read this post. What did he do wrong to deserve all of that?

-This Oppa deserves to be so much happier...

-I went through the same thing and decided to not get married at all. It has a big influence on making who you are right now, it shouldn't be taken easily.

-No wonder why he seems to have a lot of concerns about marriage...

-My heart hurts to know this...

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'A company canceled my employment because I don't want to get vaccinated' ... A job applicant talks about how the country won't hire you if you're unvaccinated

 

A company canceled my employment because I'm not getting a vaccination.

I just passed a job interview and I am supposed to start working next Monday. But the company called me and asked me if I am vaccinated, to which I answered I am not. I also told them that I don't have any plans to get vaccinated in the future because I'm afraid of the side effects. They apologized and told me that they no longer can hire me. They should've mentioned that during the job interview. I already declined a job offer from another company because of them. I am very taken aback. 

To this post, another netizen also spoke up about their experience, 'After applying, I got a message that I got the job. Along with it said, 'We only hire those who are fully vaccinated. If you are not fully vaccinated, your employment is canceled'. I am avoiding getting vaccinated so that I don't die. The world is going crazy'. Other netizens also speak up their thoughts, 'What kind of company is that?', 'So people are getting left out because they are not vaccinated'. Some think the opposite, 'Do they think that they don't have to get vaccinated just because the others are getting vaccinated and the herd immunity will be achieved?', 'If I were the director of that company, I wouldn't hire them (unvaccinated people) too'.

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-I don't know much, but how can you not get vaccinated if you work for a company? Everyone is equally scared and doesn't want to get vaccinated, but they still get it. 

-It's totally your right to get vaccinated or not. However, you should bear the consequences that come along with your choice, right? Do you think we're all not scared of getting vaccinated?

-Of course, they won't hire you if you told them you don't have any plans on getting vaccinated at all...

-You could've just said that you are going to get vaccinated...

-It's your right to get vaccinated or not. But it's also the company's right to accept only those who are vaccinated. If you don't like that policy, go find another company. The company would've risked a lot if they accepted you, who are unvaccinated. How could you write that post as if you just did a good thing?ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

-Just like it is your freedom to get vaccinated or not, it's the company's freedom to only accept those who are vaccinated^^

-If I work for the company, I wouldn't have hired you too. You not getting vaccinated just because you're scared of it makes it sound like you would reject the company's request when they ask you to do something. 

-Yes, the company is also wrong for not telling that before the interview. But they probably think you're already vaccinated because everyone is lately. I think the other companies also have a similar policy regarding vaccination.

-Just like you not getting vaccinated because you're scared, the company is not hiring you because they're scared as well.

-You should've used another reason. If I work for the company, I wouldn't hire you too...

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