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Friday, November 4, 2022

She's the problem VS Other people are the problem

I often get mistaken as a guy because of my style


I was taken to the police station recently because I went to the women's restroom and they thought I was a guy

She cuts her hair short because she thinks long hair is a hassle for her
She only wears hoodies, sweaters, and training suits because she used to be in a sports club.
She's concerned because people often mistake her for a guy to the point that she was taken to the police station for entering the women's restroom. 

If you want to continue to dress like that, you have to face the consequences of being mistaken as a guy
vs
The people who mistake her for a guy have a prejudice against appearances

What do you think?

[+392][-156]

1. [+342][-1] I totally understand and respect her style. As someone who used to work in a waterpark's locker room, people who dress like that are the most confusing ones. It wouldn't be a problem if they were actually women. But sometimes there are crazy men who don't even hesitate to enter the women's locker room. If we're not really sure, we have to check them physically to see if they're women or not. I'm sure it pisses them off to have us touching them to check, I can totally understand but there's nothing else we can do. It's just like checking someone's ID card before selling cigarettes or alcohol to them. 

2. [+260][-5] People mistake her for a guy because she looks like a guy. Do you expect people to say nothing when someone who looks like a guy enters the women's restroom?

3. [+218][-3] The people who mistake her for a guy are not wrong. That's how she looks in their eyes, what do you expect them to do? It's not a prejudice, it's just common sense. Just like how elders look like elders and kids look like kids...

4. [+165][-3] She should've just let it pass. You can tolerate part-time workers in the convenience marts selling cigarettes to a high school student who looks older than he actually is. Why are people the weird ones for assuming her gender by her looks? If I were in a restroom and someone who looks like a guy enters, I'd be really sensitive. 

5. [+57][-0] I saw her with makeup and wig on and I personally think she looks so much better with short hair. However, if she doesn't want people to mistake her for a guy, she should've styled it like Go Joon-hee's hair. 

 

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