Women really hate when their husbands are just sitting on the sofa, watching TV, and playing games while they cook, right?
So, the philosophy that women often present is, 'Why should only women do the housework? Men should share the housework equally.'
Over time, husbands have started to naturally understand that housework should be shared equally.
But when I look at women, they seem to voluntarily go to the kitchen to cook, make side dishes, and do laundry by themselves.
It's not like their husbands are ordering them to do it.
Women just do it on their own. They cook, set the table, and do the laundry.
Occasionally, they’ll ask their husbands to vacuum or take out the trash, but that's all. Women do all these household chores on their own.
Is this something deeply ingrained in their DNA from past generations?
Just like how dogs have been raised by humans for a long time and instinctively wag their tails and play with us, it seems like women have something similar passed down through generations as well.
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1. [+48][-12] It's definitely not the husband's fault. It's all because the servant mentality they have, there's nothing you can do about it. This kind of thing usually happens with Nam-mi-sae (NB: Women who are crazy for men). Usually, couples share the chores. In this age of dual-income households, who would get married if a woman has to do all the housework and earn money too?ㅡㆍㅡ
2. [+45][-4] I think it's because women are more selfless than men. They often display selflessness in the f*cking weirdest situations. They go through unnecessary hardships and then complain non f*cking stop.
3. [+41][-0] Even when a woman is sick and going to the hospital, she’ll still prepare meals, side dishes, and soup before going...
4. [+26][-17] Because the food that the husband makes tastes bad...?
5. [+22][-1] I don't understand either. Maybe it's just a different way of thinking... Women still prepare food and side dishes even when they're going to give birth. They even cook after having the baby...
6. [+11][-13] Then why is it that men are expected to run errands, carry heavy things, and drive? Everyone just does what they're better at and what comes more easily to them. That's what family is about. If you have a problem, take it up with your dad.
7. [+8][-0] That's because men underestimate the unpaid domestic labor women do. It's also called 'learned helplessness.' If the same domestic work were associated with money and honor, men would be quick to do it. Look at chefs, most of them are men. And in the military, where men take orders from other men, they do domestic chores really wellㅎ
8. [+8][-5] It's because they've grown up seeing their mother act as a servant to their father or male siblings at home.
9. [+7][-3] When we were buying a house, I completely changed the kitchen interior to my liking, choosing all the appliances—induction, dishwasher, coffee machine, rice cooker, and water purifier. I care a lot about the kitchen space, and I don’t want anyone, including my husband, invading my space. I enjoy cooking and making side dishes. I only put an extra set of utensils when I'm eating. But you're writing this in a provocative way and making women who love cooking seem foolish. Why is everyone generalizing and calling these women obsessed with men? Can you function in society with such a black-and-white logic?
10. [+7][-1] So, what's the point you're trying to make?
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